Hi, Dr. Meg.

We have a teenage son who repeatedly breaks rules around the use of technology. He uses it in his room when he should be sleeping on a school night. (He has been told to not have devices in his room.) He also uses social media accounts that he was told he was not allowed to have.

We changed passwords and confiscated devices, and then the school issued a laptop for “homework.”

My wife doesn’t like confrontation in general so I feel it has become a case of “good cop, bad cop.” She has communicated the rules and expectations clearly and consistently with what I communicate, but she is not keen on following up on the breach.

This continues to happen and has become a trigger to my frustration. I am seeking independent, professional assistance as I take responsibility for my part in this.

Are you able to offer any insight so we may finally get some traction?

Thank you,

Weary Dad

Dear Weary Dad,

Having a teenage son who won’t respect you or your rules is a serious problem—not only for you, but also, most importantly, for him.

In order for your son to succeed in his work…