Provide security at home. Children need to feel safe at home, if nowhere else. So make sure that your children feel physically secure at home. And let them know that home is the best place to find answers for dealing with frightening issues like terrorism.

Talk about evil in the world. When I was in first grade living outside of Washington, D.C., we had school drills teaching us how to reach a bomb shelter quickly. President Kennedy was confronting the Cuban Missile crisis and our neighborhood was within striking distance. But I didn’t live with fear because my parents and teachers told us that life was dangerous and they had a plan to deal with danger.

One of the worst things we can do with children is telling them that evil doesn’t exist.

They know it does, so never be afraid to talk with your children about evil and bad people, but make sure that you tell them your plan to help keep them safe.

Teach them to live wisely but unafraid. Even children know that knowledge is power. Teach your children that, yes, there are people in the world who want to hurt them, but that bad people have always…