Find out your parenting style with my parent personality quiz!

Find out your parenting style with my parent personality quiz!

COURSE LOGIN

Moms, Body Bags, and Combat

Picture of Dr. Meg Meeker

Dr. Meg Meeker

The Pentagon just sanctioned women fighting on the front lines during combat. Women have served in combat zones for a long time, but military women have just “won” the right to move to the front and be slaughtered.

I wholeheartedly disagree with this decision.

As a strong advocate for women’s rights, I understand the Pentagon’s reasoning. Women and men are equal intellectually, psychologically, socially and mentally.  As a governmental agency, they must prove that. No discrimination allowed, lest they get sued, picketed, or appear politically backwards. The problem is, they have their eye off of the ball.

The Pentagon’s job is to help secure the safety of the country and make certain that the U.S. has the strongest military possible. Those two things should always trump politics or social engineering. Combat is no place to make political statements. The truth is, most women would have a harder time throwing a 210-pound wounded fellow soldier over their shoulder and get him to safety than their male counterparts would. Women soldiers are as smart, as good at flying aircraft or crafting war strategy as men, but who would you want dragging you to safety if you were shot—a 130-pound woman or a 180-pound man?

Second, mothers should not come home in body bags. Many women who go overseas have small children at home and as an advocate for children, I don’t think that children should endure their mothers putting themselves in harm’s way. When a woman becomes a mother, she signs off the right to deliberately put herself in life-threatening situations. Being her children’s mother is her first priority—not her career. Jobs come and go, but children stay in our lives forever. A mother can have someone replace her at her job, but not at home.

This is tough for many career-oriented women to swallow, but it is the truth. Kids can’t stand up for themselves and say this, so we must. We must be bold enough to throw aside political maneuvering and do what’s right for our kids. They deserve to have their mothers come home after work healthy and alive, not dead in a body bag.

I fear that we have come to this place for one reason: we want what we want. Women want equality, and we have made many wonderful strides in this area. I’ve lived them and seen them. But when our desire to have opportunities for self improvement (more opportunities for the sake of having them) wins over parenting our children well, we’ve taken our eye off of the ball. What would children say about their mothers on the front lines if they could? Would they say, “Go, Mom!” Would they be proud or afraid? Certainly they would be the latter. And this just isn’t fair to them.

Women have earned the right to perform at very high levels in the military and I say “kudos to them.” Keep it up. But when it comes to the point where others’ lives suffer because of women’s desires to advance in their careers, we need to vocalize the inappropriateness of this. There are jobs that women and men should share, and some where only one sex should be. The front lines of combat are a place where mothers most certainly should not be.

Our Sponsors

Skylight-Meeker

Skylight Digital Picture Frames are the perfect bridge connecting you to the special moments of those you love! It’s private, pre-loadable, and you can personalize it! Visit SkylightFrame.com

K12 Powered Schools: State-certified teachers and trained online educators. Go to K12.com/DRMEG today to learn more and find a tuition-free K12-powered school near you.

As a practicing pediatrician and mother I recommend Phyla because it works wonders without any side effects and is backed by dermatologists.

Visit phylabiotics.com, enter code DRMEEKER at checkout, and start your journey to healthier skin.

Here’s the perfect gift to inspire and delight that young person in your life!

Sign up at Crunchlabs.com/DRMEG and get 2 boxes free!

That’s why you’ve got to check out AquaTru.

AquaTru purifiers use a 4-stage reverse osmosis purification process, and their countertop purifiers work with NO installation or plumbing.

Transform Your Tap Water

Air Doctor

Air Doctor, purification to protect your home! Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code DRMEG and you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!

Cozy Earth
Our goal is to help you create a sanctuary within your home, a refuge from the demands of the outside world.

Head over to cozyearth.com and use promo code DRMEG for an exclusive 35% off.

Acorns makes it easy to start automatically saving and investing for your future. Head to acorns.com/ or download the Acorns app to start saving and investing for your future today!

Your pet can’t choose healthy, but you can! Choose Whole Life Pet for human grade, freeze-dried, nutrient-rich, all natural food and treats for your dog or cat!

Visit wholelifepet.com

Born Shoes

Step into comfort by visiting BornShoes.com and take advantage of our exclusive offer. Use promo code DRMEG to enjoy a 15% discount and receive free ground shipping on all full-price shoes.

Green-chef-Meeker
The #1 Meal Kit for Eating well. Go to greenchef.com/60drmeg and use code 60drmeg to get 60% off plus 20% off your next two months.  greenchef.com to start now! 
Masimo-stork-baby-monitor

Masimo Stork is a revolutionary new baby monitor. SET technology has been in use for 25 years in the NICU units of America’s hospitals – now that same technology is available at home. Masimo Stork tracks real time, with your baby’s pulse rate, oxygen saturation, and skin temperature. While not a medical device, it can ensure more confident and calmer parenting. To learn more, go to masimostork.com.

Sponsors

Skylight-Meeker

Skylight Digital Picture Frames are the perfect bridge connecting you to the special moments of those you love! It’s private, pre-loadable, and you can personalize it! Visit SkylightFrame.com

Crunch-Labs-Meeker

Here’s the perfect gift to inspire and delight that young person in your life! The CrunchLabs build box subscription. Crunchlabs packs the fun into science by sending kids a new toy to build each month. And everyone’s favorite youtuber Mark Rober’s teaches them how! Kids LOVE IT! Go to Crunchlabs.com/DrMeg and get yours today!

Powerful purification to protect your home

Lock this special offer by going to A-I-R-D-O-C-T-O-R-P-R-O dot com and use promo code DRMEG.

Discover luxury she deserves!

Head over to cozyearth.com and use promo code DRMEG for an exclusive 35% off.

Save, invest and learn from one easy app.

Visit acorns.com

Your pet can’t choose healthy, but you can! Choose Whole Life Pet for human grade, freeze-dried, nutrient-rich, all natural food and treats for your dog or cat!

Visit wholelifepet.com

Step into comfort by visiting BornShoes.com and take advantage of our exclusive offer. Use promo code DRMEG to enjoy a 15% discount and receive free ground shipping on all full-price shoes.

Green-chef-Meeker
The #1 Meal Kit for Eating well. Go to greenchef.com/60drmeg and use code 60drmeg to get 60% off plus 20% off your next two months.  greenchef.com to start now! 
Masimo-stork-baby-monitor

Masimo Stork is a revolutionary new baby monitor. SET technology has been in use for 25 years in the NICU units of America’s hospitals – now that same technology is available at home. Masimo Stork tracks real time, with your baby’s pulse rate, oxygen saturation, and skin temperature. While not a medical device, it can ensure more confident and calmer parenting. To learn more, go to masimostork.com.

More Posts

Sponsors

Skylight Digital Picture Frames are the perfect bridge connecting you to the special moments of those you love!

Here’s the perfect gift to inspire and delight that young person in your life! The CrunchLabs build box subscription.

Your pet can’t choose healthy, but you can! Choose Whole Life Pet for human grade, freeze-dried, nutrient-rich, all natural food and treats for your dog or cat!

Masimo Stork is a revolutionary new baby monitor. SET technology has been in use for 25 years in the NICU units of America’s hospitals.

The #1 Meal Kit for Eating well. Go to greenchef.com/60drmeg and use code 60drmeg to get 60% off plus 20% off your next two months.  

Thrive Market – the customized and economical way to shop organic, non-gmo, and healthy.

Website-Dr. Meeker (8)
Feeling a a bit uneasy about having "the talk" with your son or daughter?
Dr. Meeker is here to help! “How to Talk to Your Kids about Puberty & Sex (ages 8-18)” is her most comprehensive course ever and she’ll equip you to have that conversation with knowledge, confidence and sensitivity. Check it out!

More Tools to Simplify Fatherhood