Dads don’t always understand just how great an impact they can have on their children’s lives. One of the most powerful ways you dads can have an effect on your child is with your words. Your words are so powerful, they can actually make or break your child. You can build your child up with positive affirmation, or you can tear your child down with abusive language or harsh words. 

Most dads want to be good fathers who raise great kids. A great place to start is with your words.

Whatever you tell your child, she internalizes. Trust me. I know this because I hear your children talk about themselves every time they come into my office. If she knows you love her, she feels loved. If she thinks you only criticize her, she criticizes herself. 

A lot of dads are great at building their child up with their words until they get angry about something. Losing your temper is completely normal as a parent, but when dads lose their tempers, they have to be especially careful because their words mean so much. This is where taking a step back and considering your words can be incredibly helpful for both you…