One question I get asked a lot is how parents can go about finding the best pediatrician for their child. The relationship you develop with your child’s pediatrician will last decades, so it requires honesty, mutual trust and good communication. I’ve been a pediatrician for over 30 years, so you can trust me on this one.

Start by asking friends in the medical field for a recommendation. Professionals in the medical field know one another’s reputations. The bad ones get singled out pretty quickly—usually on the basis of a medical mistake, not personality. So if you have a friend who works in a hospital, ask him or her who they recommend.

A open relationship with your pediatrician requires honesty, mutual trust and good communication

Then, set up an interview. I love seeing new parents and understand that after they interview me, some will choose my practice and others won’t. When you schedule an interview with a potential pediatrician, make sure you ask these five important questions:

What are your views on life?

It is crucial that you feel supported and encouraged by your pediatrician because you are a far bigger influence over your child’s health and wellness than she is.

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